Saturday, April 3, 2010

My First Gay Party In Bangalore

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I'm a closeted gay guy from Bangalore (my regular visitors already know!). When I came to bangalore a couple of years back from a small town, I had this larger than life image of the 'gay parties' that are supposed to happen in the metro cities. Bangalore, arguably, has the best looking guys in India and my expectations were quite high to say the least. It took some time to actually go to a party, reasons: I am more of a 'sit-down-and-read-a-book' kinda guy, I dance real bad (have improved a bit now though), I didn't have any gay friends here who went to parties, I was down right scared of police, family and friends finding out, etc. (I've come quite a long way since, this blog talks a lot about my personal life!).
When I got to attend my first gay party I made sure I had friends with me who were going for the first time too and there was my ex-boyfriend with me like a guide for both of us :P It was a hotel with a known gay reputation in Bangalore. We went on time which is not exactly what happens in most parties here, people come late and then beg the DJ to play 'one-single-last-song'. The host was a charming young guy who made me comfortable right from the start, his face dripping off a sense of responsibility and authority. I still remember the way me and my friend were sitting in a corner couch looking around at the people with shy excitement, a beer bottle in hand and trying to make it last forever. People hardly notice you if you are not exactly a model material, or dance really well or make a bold statement with what you wear or act like a slut. So needless to say that I hardly got noticed in the party. Towards the end I actually did two significant things - I danced and I 'almost' kissed a guy!
Since then things have changed drastically when right now I'm in a stage when there's a party in town and I have invites from some really hot guys and I've decided to stay back home and write this article for people who may not know me ever in their lives (I wish I could link this blog to my FB account or have a picture of me here).

21 comments:

  1. hi! add me to facebook, im from mexico and maybe i´ll be traveling to bangalore, and wanth a gay friend there, ra_cid@hotmail.com

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    1. hi wanna join any fullinight gay party in banglore plz infmme dear

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  2. i also want to go a gay party but i dont know whr it happens in bangalore.i m new in dis city......so can u help me??????my email id is r.rupankar@gmail.com

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  3. You can check out http://www.thepinknation.com/ for updates on parties. There are few FB communities also that you might want to consider.

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  4. Its strange that something which should not have happened has been celebrated as a party. Rubbish party.

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  5. Friends,
    I am not sure am a gay or not. I support homosexuality and want to come in contact to gay society, so that i can sit with some people and can discover my self.

    Please let me know if there are some gathering out here in Bangalore.

    Sagar

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  6. Friends,
    I am not sure am a gay or not. I support homosexuality and want to come in contact to gay society, so that i can sit with some people and can discover my self.

    Please let me know if there are some gathering out here in Bangalore.

    Sagar
    sheron.sagar@gmail.com

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  7. would like to join a gay party kindly call me and let me know at 9886435722

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  8. i wana go 4 a gay party 2day n i dont know wer doe it tak place so if any 1 know plz leave me a mg @9036974300

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  9. Off late i have started to look into the gay parites.. :) donno y.. but i feel like going there and dance till the last beat.

    let me know on rajaryansurya@gmail.com

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    1. Hey m new in the city, can you tell me where gay parties happen in bangalore. my mail id kapoorkaran435@yahoo.com

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  10. if interested to join me morrow ping me on wayin@in.com

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  11. i am kind of going for my first gay party today. So, i came across this article. N really find helpful. So thanks a ton :)

    Hard part is i am scared n nervous. N i don know how to get out of going there.

    Keep posting. It really helps people like me :)
    Thanks, Bye.

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  12. Dear Anon,
    I hope you liked the party last night. I was there too after a really long time :)
    I'm sure you looked pretty and some cute guy asked you out and you two had breakfast in the morning.
    Muah.

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  13. i m intrest in party so msg mi l 8431271885

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  14. i havent attended any. do send me an email winme.bangalore at gmail

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  15. I am interest this party send sms 8693998060

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  16. hi i am Raj from Bangalore Mob No: 7795546426

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  17. First of all! Great Blog! And Kudos to you for sharing your experience! I completely relate to you, even more so because I'm new in Bangalore and haven't been to any parties yet, but I'm dying to! and y9ou make them sound fun and comfortable enough.

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  18. Nowadays the biggest gay party in Bangalore is the one by FEVERNITES, which happens every Saturday. http://fevernites.com

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